At a recent television symposium on sex-related topics, a young participant posed the question to the moderator: “Sir, some people say that masturbation is not good for your health. Please let me know, sir.” The president stated, “There is no harm associated with masturbation.” With that said, he went on to list some “benefits” of masturbation and concluded his talk by saying that masturbation, if not done frequently, would not harm, but would be good for health. He concluded by saying that masturbation is the best alternative to sex with a partner because there is no risk of HIV involved. He had strong objections to that theory. I sincerely hope that my objections do not go unnoticed and therefore I am writing this article for the benefit of young people. There is also a brief reference to Homo sex.

SEX is the greatest gift that nature has given to all living beings.

Every ‘living’ being simply yearns to have sex with a partner of the opposite sex. In the case of animal beings, only one sexual partner will be very dominant over the other. For the most part, the male partner dominates over the female, as in the case of oxen, cats, dogs, etc. But in the case of human beings, the situation is different. Here the woman is equally interested, sometimes more dominant, in sex, compared to the male partner.

Civilized society has established certain very difficult rules for the human sex, and this is precisely the reason why women are subjected to more severe conditions than their counterparts. Therefore, in the case of human beings, the man has more responsibility in satisfying the sexual needs of the female partner.

What is sex

The sexual instinct comes from childhood itself. Girls like to see male organs, touch them and also lick them. I have also seen some boys describing the intimate parts of women, sometimes also their blood relatives, who watched as the latter bathed or changed her underwear. The height of these habits is that, if the parents have sex in the same room where the child is supposed to sleep, (in India this practice is common) the children will pretend to be sleeping and observe the sexual act of their parents and describe His parents. friends in detail the next day.

Once the child becomes an adult, he likes to see the girls, talk to them, play hide-and-seek. While playing, they will touch their secret parts, kiss them and have sexual pleasure. Once puberty is reached, the boy or girl will have some mysterious feelings that cannot be explained.

In ancient times, marriages were celebrated long before puberty and therefore sex would not have been a problem because after puberty they would be allowed to have sex.

But today the minimum age of a boyfriend or girlfriend in common practice is 26 years old. Therefore, any young person, be it a boy or a girl, has to wait 10 to 12 years after reaching puberty.

Naturally, they turn to alternative methods to obtain sexual pleasure. If they have enough money they go to prostitutes and if they do not have they resort to masturbation and if they have some male companionship and loneliness, they resort to homosexuality. This practice is also widely found in girls and they are called lesbians.

In this article, we deal with men only because the man has more responsibility to satisfy the partner.

MASTURBATION means manual stimulation of the genital organs, by your own effort or with the help of the other to achieve orgasm, which is also known as onanism. This is what the leading scholar guest, who proclaimed himself a sex consultant, said: “It is not dangerous to health. In fact, it is necessary to reduce sexual tension and desire.” His only argument was, “It is good to indulge in masturbation as it will reduce sexual crimes such as rape.” The third and final advantage, according to him, was “it will not spread HIV because it is not about spreading the virus.” when there is no other partner involved who can pass blood-related fluids. “

When a young man asked, “Sir, can I masturbate tonight, sir?” he gave the answer casually, “why tonight? You can enjoy masturbation until the day after noon as soon as you get home” amid uproarious laughter from the audience.

How does this habit start?

In most cases, this habit begins as an accident. When a teenage boy is in the puberty stage, he is affected by some unfamiliar feelings that he cannot describe. She is very happy to touch the male organs and often massages them. One fine day, you would find that you reach orgasm due to the ejaculation of semen. His pleasure knows no limits as he has obtained a totally new sensation that until now he had not imagined. Afterward, you are waiting for another opportunity to masturbate and as time goes by, it becomes a regular habit. Bad company of friends makes the process very fast. Reading pornographic books, watching pornographic television shows makes one indulge more and more in this evil habit.

What are the evils of masturbation?

With the passage of time, you discover that the pleasure will gradually diminish and eventually provide no pleasure. You will also lose your virility. He would face premature ejaculation leaving the partner totally unsatisfied. Their reproductive capacity will come to an end as soon as possible. You could have children as the previous speaker claimed, but your married life would be totally worthless. His wife, who has more sexual desire as described above, will be totally upset, and on several occasions, dissatisfied women will become disloyal to their marital partners.

Psychologically you will also lose all your confidence. You will not be able to compete with anyone, neither in office nor in the family. In short, he would be practically a dead man, displaying some talents on the outside but a total weakness on the inside. I know a well-educated, handsome, and well-versed computer engineer, but very weak in sexual activity. This article is aimed at young people like him.

Homosexual sex has all the ills mentioned above, in addition to the fact that couples are exposed to the risk of HIV infection. In fact, the origin of HIV is reported to begin only with Homo sex. In many countries homosexual sex is legalized, so it is advisable to stop criticism, except to point out the physical, medical and psychological adversities that are listed above.

What are the ways and means to avoid masturbation?

Nature has given the pleasure of sex mainly for the reproduction of species that can only be obtained through a suitable relationship with the opposite sex. But today, due to the population explosion, various methods of stopping reproduction, such as the condom, contraceptive drugs, and vasectomy procedures, have become fashionable. In general, there is a sharp drop in the birth rate. This can be an act of nature to keep your balance. But people have to maintain interest and participation in marital sex to produce healthy children. At least the children who come to Earth by birth must be healthy and wholesome.

From a young age, boys should receive adequate training in moral education. Parents must exercise control to prevent their children from watching pornographic movies and reading pornographic literature. They should speak freely with their children about sexual matters. Schools can include sex education in their curriculum.

It is not necessary to separate girls from boys (as in some parts of India). They should be allowed to move freely, of course, under the supervision of their parents and teachers.

Training in moral education must be accompanied by training in Yoga and meditation. They must also be able to live in groups that have high moral values. Parents should be careful to marry off their wards at the right age when their sexual desire is at its peak. Your interest in sex should also be a factor to consider in addition to other considerations such as education, work, and the ability to earn an income.

Artificial sexual pleasure is a great threat that threatens the future of today’s youth. They should take the necessary measures against this practice. This will prevent any possible catastrophe at a future date.