A woman’s body has numerous erogenous zones or hot spots that, when sexually stimulated, can give her amazing orgasms. Today in Female Sexual Anatomy 101 we’ll be learning about the C-spot, the G-spot, and the A-spot. Oh, and even the U-Spot.
The C-spot (aka the fabulous clitoris)
The clitoris is the number one hot spot in the female pleasure zone and 70% of women shy away from clitoral stimulation. The only organ designed exclusively for pleasure, this sensitive little glans sits just below where the tops of the inner labia meet.
The clitoris has more than 8,000 sensitive nerve endings, which is more than any other part of the human body, including the male penis. For this reason, it can be extremely sensitive until a woman is fully aroused, so start foreplay first in other areas of the body (lips, breasts, vulva) before attacking the clitoris.
While some women want and need direct clitoral stimulation, for other women this can be uncomfortable and even painful. So again, start slowly, use plenty of lubricant, and circulate around the clitoris before touching the sensitive glans directly.
Many women find the upper right side of the clitoris very sensitive, so test this spot with a lubricated finger, tongue, or vibrator to stimulate it. If your clit were a clock, the hot spot would be at 10:30 pm. Try to focus on different time zones around your little clock and watch your body language as you respond. Or ask him to tell you which area works best for him.
The nerves of the clitoris travel through the vagina, bladder and urethra, transmitting the sensations produced in that area. This means that clitoral orgasms are closely related to G-spot orgasms, although they feel very different.
The G-spot (or infamous G-spot)
There’s a lot of talk about the infamous G-spot, or Grafenberg’s spot, (also known as the female prostate), but for most women it’s still elusive. It is an extremely sensitive area on the front wall inside the vaginal canal about one to two inches up, near the bladder. It was first described as “an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation.”
It seems easy enough, so why is it so hard to find? The G-spot is often elusive because in its sexually “unstimulated” state it feels no pleasure and is very small. But once you wake up, the G-spot will start to swell with fluid, and a wrinkled, prune-like tissue (the urethral sponge) will be felt to the touch. It will also begin to feel pleasant to be touched.
Like most forms of sexual arousal, it’s best to warm it up with foreplay first and then try to find the G-spot right away. Once your lover is aroused, you can insert two fingers or a G-spot dildo into her vagina to stimulate the G-spot. And clitoral stimulation before and during G-spot arousal also works to arouse the G-spot.
To stimulate the G-spot with your fingers, make sure they are well lubricated and your nails are trimmed (or use a glove and plenty of lubricant). Insert your fingers 1 “-2” into the vagina and look for the puffy, wrinkled, sponge-like spot, just blow your pelvis. The G-spot will feel a bit like the roof of your mouth when you feel it with your tongue, while the surrounding tissue will feel like the inside of your cheeks, very smooth. There you found it.
Begin by using a “come here” motion with your fingers to gently massage the G-spot and add firm pressure as he begins to push his hips toward you. The G-spot craves firm pressure and a push when highly aroused. A firm, curved dildo or vibrator made for G-spot pleasure will also work well for this technique.
When a woman is ready to have an orgasm through G-spot stimulation, she can ejaculate, so be prepared. It is good to have absorbent towels on hand. The force of orgasm can also push fingers or any toy out of the vagina.
The U-Spot. What is it?
The U-Spot is a very small ridge of sensitive tissue that is found on both sides of the urethral opening and above it. This area is very erotic for some women when lightly stroked with a finger, tongue, or a soft vibrator. The U-spot is very sensitive, so be very careful when stimulating it and use a lot of lubricant. And, like any form of sexual stimulation, ask your partner what feels good and try varying the speed, pressure, and type of stimulation.
Also keep in mind that because this area is connected to the urethra (and the female prostate gland), stimulating it can make a woman feel like she needs to urinate. If that’s not a feeling she wants to feel, she may want to avoid this area. However, along with G-spot stimulation, indulging the U-spot can be very erotic and help persuade you to ejaculate when you are about to have an orgasm.
Hot Spot Bonus: Point A
Spot A is a patch of tender tissue at the end of the vaginal tube above the cervix and below the bladder. Also known as “female degenerated prostate”, direct stimulation of this area can produce “violent orgasmic contractions”. Trust me, you’ll know when you hit it.
Pressure on this area produces rapid lubrication of the vagina, even in women who do not normally respond sexually. This point can only be hit during sexual intercourse with the vagina or with a long, slightly curved dildo. The best position to get to this place through sex is doggy style.
So now you know the three (actually four) of the most sensitive sexual parts of the female body and how to stimulate them. Imagine if there was a hot spot for each letter of the alphabet. Who knows, maybe there is.
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