When people reach the end of their emotional and psychological rope, they invariably ask if their marriage is worth saving. Ironically, they already know intuitively that they must save their marriage; they just don’t know how. I have never met anyone (which is not to say that they don’t exist) who has married with the idea of ​​ending their marriage at some point in the future. People marry to live happily ever after. Why are so few doing it?

We live in a very confused society

Everyone complains about dishonesty.
Even the ones who sneak into movies without paying.

Everyone complains about corrupt politicians.
Even those who take advantage of their situational power.

No one is considered a liar.
Not even those who cheat on income tax.

Everyone thinks their marriage will work out.
Even though the divorce rate is staggering.

The idea of ​​saving your marriage is great. The problem should create a wake-up call that prompts you to investigate everything and everywhere until you find a solution to your marital problems. In the meantime, never give up on having a very happy marriage. You can save your marriage despite the flaws you find in your spouse or yourself; That’s a fact. Do you think that God is cruel enough to create marriage as a way to find suffering? Can you imagine God being so cruel as to create marriage only for those who are perfect? I did not believe it and so I searched and discovered everything necessary to create or fix the marriage; and you can too.

There are a number of good reasons to save your marriage:

1) Your children
Your children are not possessions. They came into your life as a blessing and a responsibility. The very foundation of a child consists of a united mother and father. Don’t imagine that your children will be okay if you don’t save your marriage. Don’t believe the lies that society presents to rationalize “divorce on demand.”

2) Your future success
When you took your wedding vows, they reflected the most serious commitment of your life: to your spouse and to yourself. Giving up is contrary to the laws of success.

3) Our society
Families are the unit of measure of any society. There has been a tremendous transformation in our society as a result of the high divorce rate. There is no reasonable substitute for a family-based social order. Each individual has greater importance when he is part of a society of families. The blatant insecurities and fears that suffocate our country are the logical result of divorce.

If your marriage is in trouble, there are clear reasons, rarely the ones that surface. Like anything else, marriage has a natural structure that must be supported by correct behaviors. I have gone into great detail in my book Lessons for a Happy Marriage so that anyone can understand what it takes to save a marriage, no matter how dire it may seem. Don’t give up and don’t get demoralized if your current state is one of pain and suffering. You and your spouse deserve what God has created for you to enjoy.