So you took her out to dinner, bought flowers, even cooked a meal and still don’t have deeply romantic moments? Women are not connected in the same way as men, and as we age, things that were once important may no longer be top priority. Vitality and charisma are still the winners. Why not reevaluate your approach at all levels?

Women have been compared to beautiful flowers over the centuries, probably because they are beautiful to look at, they come in many shapes, sizes, colors, and fragrances. Men are probably more like bees that pollinate flowers, we think about it, flitting from one to another in search of the perfect petals and the opening to collect nectar. Yes, nature always gives us clues. It’s interesting that those bees are probably working very hard for the queen bee in the hive!

What kind of woman are you in love with? Did you know? Some women are the “girl next door” type, or those who care a lot about the world around them and how they could contribute. Other women may be more interested in self-improvement and earning a lot of money. Then there are the women who live and breathe for the opportunity to have children, two dogs, a white picket fence, and lots of social club memberships. There are naughty or flirtatious women, and shy ones, some sociable and others quite reserved. And beyond that there are women who are immersed in their occupations with little time for anything or anyone else except for a day or two of romance with a lover. Certainly there are combinations of all of the above, but generally there is one predominant quality, one that is the primary motivator. It is important to know who you are married or in love with or trying to “get”.

After examining the type of woman you wish to have an affair with, try to think about how she responds to you. Does your lady do things that blatantly say “I care”? Does he surprise you with thoughtful gestures like cooking your favorite meal, turning down the bed, picking up something you forgot, splurging on your favorite weekend getaway? Or do you spend countless hours writing, researching, traveling, and attending meetings every day with little time for such endeavors? Sex appeal is personal, but whatever your best attributes are, make sure they always shine.

No matter what type of woman you are in love with, most women adore men who are thoughtful and who are good listeners and observers. They enjoy men who can take initiative, make decisions, and those with impeccable manners. They also like smart, fit, and well-groomed men. Being trustworthy is a quality we love and when a man says he will call and he doesn’t, he quickly loses his faith, unless of course he’s been hospitalized and even then can text. Women don’t care much about selfish men or those who think too much of themselves or their position. Many women are delighted with financial stability, but they will contribute more than their fair share if they feel totally loved by their man.

Do you really know her favorite colors, what shoe size she wears, what spa treatments she enjoys the most? Do you remember her birthday, the anniversary of your first date, her favorite type of jewelry? Do you know which fragrance he likes the most for you to wear? Do you know what I would appreciate the most?

Women love men who are honest, but not excessively, they don’t want to hear that they look fat in their favorite outfit. They love knowing that they are beautiful, sexy, and that you can’t wait to get home to see her. (I think men enjoy that too) It’s always exciting when a man goes out of his way to leave a note in a secret spot, a hot phone message, or just a rose on the breakfast table.

Men who know the likes and dislikes of their lovers in the bedroom are always gatekeepers. Men who go shopping with their lady for lingerie, a special fragrance, or some other personal item excite some women. On the other hand, men who don’t let their lover get out of sight is a detour. Women like it when a man gets a little jealous of other men, but not when they are insanely jealous.

Men who are patient, love animals, and those who are good with children generally fall high on the “I love that boy” list. Women love it when they share their jacket if they are cold, put their arms around them in movies or hold their hands at any time. It is important for a man to make a woman feel that she means a lot to him. Actions speak out loud and just saying you care is not enough, you should follow through with actions that support those words. If he expects you to pick up the soccer kids, he’ll assume you’ll be there. The golden rule applies to all relationships in life. Doing others … It is really attractive when a guy knows how to dress for any occasion. It’s nice to have a guy open doors for you, help you sit down, grab your coat, choose a meal, a bottle of wine, and have a few tricks up your sleeve for a romantic evening or a quick getaway. Women also love guys who are not afraid to try new things and step out of their comfort zone from time to time.

Of course, we like guys who are not only successful occupationally, but those who have worldviews, opinions that are supported as a master of debate if need be, and those who will fight for you. We also like guys who can fix things, anything really; cars, water heaters, the lawn mower, or a computer. Girls love guys who know how to strip them literally and with their eyes. Good kissers, always a great excitement.

Men who are respectful and a true gentleman who has manners in every situation really impresses. A man who will only buy virgin drinks for his younger girl on their first date because he doesn’t want to get her drunk is totally cool, especially when he finds out weeks later. Women also enjoy when a man tells them that they are really good at something, or that they sleep soundly even if they snore. Women adore men who give up going out at night with guys to spend time with them every now and then. We love someone who can juggle responsibilities at work and still have energy for a relationship. No one will stay interested in a guy who always sits at home and watches TV in his underwear while drinking a beer … check it out, unless of course he looks like Brad or George Clooney, then we could be happy for so much more weather. .

Women love guys who have a great sense of humor and can laugh at themselves. Oh yeah, women go crazy over guys who can apologize and admit when they’re wrong … and sadly that doesn’t happen often enough. So if you are honest, kind, gentle, smart, funny, good in bed, have respect, you can take a joke, love activities, you will shop with your beloved at times, you will treat your mother well, you can cook a great meal, surprise. her, take her for a moonlight walk or car to look at houses, look at the stars in the sky, talk honestly about your day, listen carefully, play with the kids, the dog, spend time with your family lover, achieve your goals, you have passions that lead you to discover the novelty of life, or you could experiment with something like tantric sex or dance classes … you are definitely a keeper! Is that list too long? I have reduced it from the original ideas you sent me!

Enjoy getting to know your lady and what turns her on … strive to be more loving, generous and open and you may be rewarded with more than you ever dreamed of. Take your relationship to a much higher level, self improvement for men and women is important. We can all be better partners.

Love fully and love life!