So… he says he’s not ready for the big C – Commitment?

What does this mean? It means he doesn’t want to have a relationship with you.

Yes, it’s a tough pill to swallow, but trust me, unlike women, men are in no rush to find Miss Perfect. Dating men is about learning and experimenting. It sounds hard to believe that I know, but men take a logical approach to dating. They wholeheartedly believe with unshakeable faith that one day there will come a woman who ‘Rocks Their World’.

Men want what we want, but they just don’t admit it like we do.

So how do you groom a guy?

Well, you really can’t and it makes sense to wait for him to be ready because he doesn’t like you. Hit the road, Jill, and find a boy who’s ready.

The key to success with men requires an entirely new dating strategy.

The reason you are getting germ after germ or uncommitted man after uncommitted man is because your subconscious mind is attracting garbage bags.

To start winning in your love life, you need to take back your personal power and start running your own game.

This requires that you clearly acknowledge to yourself that you want something real; In other words, you’ve had enough of casual one night stands and what men call ‘friends with benefits’. Either you are friends with a man or you are something else with a man, there is no such thing as ‘in the middle’.

Men want gold, not a bronze show horse that they can ride for a while.

Not only do you need to be clear about what you want and what you have to offer, but you need to play your game like you don’t give a damn.

From now on you will eat men. You’ll be a heartthrob and every time a guy isn’t doing what you want or you just don’t like him he kicks that brother to the curb. You don’t need to be a pretty boy who thinks he has you all set up because all the other girls want them. You are not just any other girl, you are something special, so act like it.​.

Trust your instincts, they are rarely wrong, so start running your own show and get what you want from love.

Don’t rush, there’s plenty of time and the right person will come when you’re ready!