Some single people, some single people dating, and some married couples have a little secret. The secrecy may not be so much a secret, but this secrecy can take place in a very open and free-thinking environment. The secret is to ‘balance’.

What is swinging? For those who don’t know what swinging is, it’s a gathering of like-minded people with one thing on their mind: red hot hot sex. Sex can take place between a man and a wife and their counterparts, another like-minded couple. This sometimes dirty hot sex, sometimes known as wife swapping, can also be done in larger groups that are commonly seen in movies. devotion for a single night. Obviously, if this happens regularly, this married couple could just happen to be sleeping with all of their counterparts after a few months have passed. This type of wife swinging or swapping is a dangerous game because you could sleep with the same person more than once and this could turn into something more than just sex and ruin what you once thought was a perfect marriage. In this scenario, jealousy is the killer here, most men or women who feel cheated will regret their journeys into unknown ecstasy and might destroy their once happy suburban lives.

On the other hand, there are specific clubs dedicated to swinging and in these clubs sex is not reserved only for couples. These so called swingers clubs are accepting of all types and might even have some type of theme. Swingers clubs might have a special selection process that doesn’t involve keys in a bowl, it could be a form of human bingo or lottery. Two fat women, two single women, a couple, two men, two mature women, three on three, four on four, or even group orgies where there might be hands feet and God knows what God knows where. I came up for air only to find her hand on the chest of a strange woman or her head pushed into someone’s butt, not literally. As they say anything goes. Usually, if you find yourself among many of these swing clubs, you can try a different place every night and not have sex with the same person twice. This could be much safer than the wife swapping parties that became famous in the 1960s, 1970s, and 1980s. You can never be too sure though, lots of hot and steamy sex with different people could be addictive. It’s kinky, it’s usually sex on demand once you’ve entered the clubs and put on your best sexy dancewear and sexy lingerie to make the night more erotic than a night at home. So you’re feeling in your prime and strangers tell you you’re hot, surely this affirmation of what you think you already know about yourself is enough to drive someone to the brink of addiction.

Some people believe that this sex between consenting adults is disturbed, sadistic, self-degrading and not in line with the marriage pact, others, the people who participate in this type of event call it sexual freedom, free love, confidence in their couples and fun erotic fantasy with another. Whatever it’s called and as long as it’s safe ie the use of a condom and if it holds a marriage together then I’m all for it, on the other hand I don’t think it’s for everyone and this realization when you don’t fully realize until the worst happens and your partner runs off with someone else. If you’re going to engage in something like this, make sure you both fully agree that this is the right evening hobby for you, and then you can start shopping for the sexy pvc catsuits and babydoll nightwear or the special sexy nightwear or horny corsets for your nights of sexual pleasure.