Most of us understand the importance of keeping our lives organized. If we don’t, we won’t be able to find things when we need them, we’ll miss important appointments, and we won’t be able to be as effective. From planners to closet organizers, we’ve got plenty of tools to help us stay organized and on track.

Wouldn’t it be great if you could organize your love life somehow? Very often, we feel that finding the right one is very important, but we let chance and circumstance help us create and maintain a happy relationship where both parties understand and support each other in the long run. Some people regret that they can’t do more to be more effective in the dating world.

Is it possible to organize your love life? Yeah! There’s something you can do to find the right guy when you’re single, including acknowledging him when he crosses your path and making the dating game less painful and scattered.

The most important thing to know is who you are and what motivates you. Most people can tell you what their favorite food is. But few can tell you why they always fall for the “bad boy” type, can never find a good enough guy, or continue to nag their boyfriends when it only leads to arguments and eventually breakups. Understanding who you are deep down inside is key to answering those questions and then preventing them from happening again and again in your love life. Sometimes these things are caused by deep psychological issues that need to be resolved in counseling. Often, they are more of a manifestation of your personality type, and you just need to understand more about your personality to adjust to how it affects your love life.

Is there an easy way to find out more about you and your personality? Yeah! Just like there are tools to keep the rest of your life organized, there are personality assessments and quizzes to help you understand yourself and even your partner more clearly. Basically, these awareness tools organize your understanding of certain aspects of love and give you a framework in which to identify how you react in certain situations.

You can organize your love life, thus increasing your understanding for success. Just by getting to know yourself and your personality on a deeper level, you can turn your love life from a hopeless mess to a journey with purpose!