There are tons of rumors out there about sexual pleasure, it’s no wonder men are so confused about how to make their women come, let alone have a screaming orgasm.

All women crave sex. If you can bring a woman to the point of a screaming orgasm, then she won’t want to leave you, because most women almost never experience screaming orgasms. Now, if she’s worried about the whole penis size thing, don’t worry, because there is another factor that is TEN times more important than penis size. If you want to give a woman such intense sexual pleasure that she reaches the point of screaming orgasm, then you must not only arouse her physically, you must arouse her emotionally.

A woman’s sexual ecstasy is strongly related to her emotional state. She doesn’t get over if you’re as “big” as King Kong, if you can’t emotionally arouse her, she won’t even come close to having a screaming orgasm with you.

There are three variables you have to manage to get her to have powerful screaming orgasms with you:

Number one: Attraction. Most guys are busy obsessing over the size of their penis or whatever other irrelevant insecurities they have, and they don’t realize that the number one factor they need to pay attention to is their attraction to you. This is completely under your control. If you think she’s attracted to you, the reality is that she could be ten times more attracted to you if you cut out a couple of weak behaviors and replace them with stronger ones. Can you imagine the sexual pleasure she could have with you if she wasn’t just interested in you, but she was just dying to be with you? The more he anticipates having sex with you, the easier it will be to have a screaming orgasm.

Spend time amplifying his attraction as much as you can. In fact, my goal is for my women to see me as the most attractive man they have ever met. I have several tricks for this. Make him work harder for you and don’t make it easy for him. The more work he puts in, the more attraction he has and the more chance he has of having a screaming orgasm. Next, be the alpha male and take charge. Women crave leadership in a man. By comfortably assuming the masculine role, it allows you to be more feminine and it will be more natural to have that screaming orgasm. Don’t forget to have a strong and commanding tone of voice (dirty talk is always good). Alpha body language is also important. The most important thing is that you have to make her fantasize about you as her ultimate sexual fantasy.

Number two: emotional blocks. Many women don’t realize that their inability to have intense sexual pleasure is not due to other men, but rather their own mental blocks. These mental blocks often stem from emotional hurts in the past; carrying that baggage makes a screaming orgasm virtually impossible. I had a client who was able to orgasm consistently for over 10 years because her first boyfriend laughed at her after he first came. After she’s powerfully attracted to you, take the time to clear her emotional blocks. It takes trust and open communication about past pain. Here’s a tip: When you talk to her about your scars, she’ll do the same, growing closer to you in the process.

Number three: physically climb with confidence. Start with the foreplay, well in advance. For me, I start foreplay hours before sex… That’s just the tone of my relationships, I condition my women to always be turned on in my presence. This way, a screaming orgasm is inevitable!

Flirt, tease, be warm, then cool, then gentle and rude. Maybe you could caress her gently while telling her that she’s sweet and adorable, and then give her a little bite while notifying her of the punishment she’s about to receive for being so sexy. You can also gently massage her entire body and deliberately avoid x-rated areas until she desperately wants you to touch those areas and stop for a moment to check your cell phone!

You have to have a strong attraction and then root out his insecurities before you worry about escalating physically. Her bad relationship with her dad or her last boyfriend could be the reason she can’t go with you. Also, your goal should always be to be her ultimate sexual fantasy. This is the only way to have wild sex and screaming orgasms constantly with you. With this basic method, I can make women come at least twice every time we have sex. For more information on dating, relationships and sex visit my site.