Do you know that a rebound relationship can work in your favor? If you’ve broken up with your girlfriend and she’s dating someone else, you might be wondering how you can win her back now that she’s in a rebound relationship.

I faced a similar situation several years ago, this is what I deduced from that experience. With the right attitude and actions, the fact that your girlfriend is in a relationship can work in your favor.

I was going through a difficult period in my relationship. I didn’t feel fulfilled in that, so I decided to take a break from the relationship. I had found another person who was a better partner for me and I felt satisfied in my new relationship.

But the truth is that the reason I got into the rebound relationship so quickly was because the pain of the spike was excruciating. I didn’t know it would be so hard to get over my ex, so I figured if he started dating again, I could minimize the emotions of the breakup, it would be easier to forget about it and move on.

However, since my relationship with my ex had been based on true love, it was not easy to deal with the pain of losing him. I couldn’t help but compare my new boyfriend to my ex. Suddenly I started to miss my ex a lot and the issues that led to our break up didn’t seem to matter anymore. All that went through my mind were the memories of the good times we had shared. I wondered how we had gotten to the breaking point when our relationship had been so good.

I felt bad for being unfair to the new guy. Yeah, he was a great guy. He was kind and funny and he cared about me, but something wasn’t right. He wondered why, even though my rebound relationship was so wonderful, I couldn’t open my heart to him. I struggled to reciprocate the love, but that was just the problem. With my ex, I didn’t need to fight to love him, I just flowed.

My rebound man worried about our relationship and complained that it seemed like I was punishing him for losing my old boyfriend. I decided to take a good look at myself to find out what the problem was. That’s when I found out that I was actually still in love with my ex and missed him so much. In fact, our relationship was far from over.

I went ahead and confessed to my rebound guy that I was still in love with my ex. I apologized for making him believe that he could work between us. He luckily he was kind to me. He told me that all he wanted was for me to be happy and I told him that he also deserved happiness but that he couldn’t find it with me because my heart belonged to someone else.

Thus began the road to reconciliation with my ex. My ex had been studying my moves during this time and realized that my attention was still focused on him even when he was in the rebound relationship. He knew I was dating someone different because something was missing in our relationship, so he used my time with the rebound man to get better and find out what he was really looking for.

After being in the rebound relationship for only a month, I started missing my ex a lot because the rebound relationship was nothing like the one I had with my ex. My rebounding partner was a nice guy, but we just weren’t made for each other.

When I was ready to make a move on my ex, he was benevolent and kindly welcomed me. He apologized for his part in the breakup and gave me some time to reflect on things.

Indeed, the space he gave me helped me understand who I was and what I really wanted. I was able to realize on my own that he was the love of my life. I was able to choose him of my own free will, therefore I valued the relationship more after we got back together and he was sure that my love for him was genuine.

So, if your ex starts dating after the breakup, they are in a rebound relationship. You can reconcile with her and get back together. Do not despair. The rebound relationship can be a sign that she is still in love with you.