The best way to make girls want you is to build attraction. Women are attracted to different things than men. We like to see a girl with a nice firm butt, small waist, big eyes, etc. Women like to see a guy who looks like he’s in charge of the room.

It’s not that girls are attracted to power. That is a myth. What attracts women is perceived power. They are attracted to guys who look like men who are in charge. Women don’t care that you have power. We are talking about complete carnal attraction. The appearance of power, even if the girl knows you don’t have any, is all you need to develop that attraction.

So you need to show that power in everything you do, even when you sit down. You have to sit like an alpha male. Here are several ways to show your masculinity when sitting down.

Occupy space

The first tip is to take up space, and take up as much space as possible. The guys in charge get all the space they want. Sit like you are the only one allowed in your chair or sofa. You can do it in many ways:

1) Open your legs. You don’t want to extend them so much that you look like a bum, but you do want to extend them enough so that you look big and comfortable.

2) Extend your arms. Put your arms on the sides of the chair as if you were hugging a girl. This comes with the added bonus that if a girl sits next to you, your arm is already around her.

Make sure you take up as much space as you can. You can also put your foot on the knee if it is more comfortable for you.

Be relaxed

You have to sit like you’re relaxed, because alpha males don’t get nervous in the room. That means that in addition to having your legs apart, you have to slouch a bit; not too much or it will look like you are hiding, but just enough to make you look comfortable. Your legs should not shake and your arms and hands should not be clenched.

Be strong

Remember, even if you want to look relaxed, you shouldn’t look like a bum. Don’t forget to sit up high. Keep your back mostly straight (a little slouching is fine, but not too much), shoulders out, whatever it takes to make you look powerful.

Lean back

Finally, when you talk to someone, be it a girl or a friend, you have to remember to lean back. Don’t lean in to hear what they are saying. Bowing is a sign of weakness. The alpha male doesn’t need to lean in to hear other people talk, because the alpha male is the one everyone else should work to listen to.

Win the girl over with your body language

The way you handle yourself is what will build his attraction. Even if you’re a nice guy, you still need to display alpha male body language because that’s the kind of body language that girls are attracted to. It’s one of the reasons girls you’re not interested in start to like you: the body language you display when you’re not interested is almost identical to the body language an alpha male displays all the time.

So when you’re sitting down, don’t forget to keep displaying that body language. The way you sit plays a huge role in how girls perceive you. Since you need to look like an alpha male, you need to make sure that you display alpha male behaviors at all times. So sit like a man, man.