When you think of ways to drive your woman crazy enough to want to have sex with you, you try it all: suggestive gifts, sensual music, and exciting movies. Talking dirty can also help you turn her on. It helps when you have been in a relationship for quite some time and your sex life starts to get predictable and boring. Try these ways to drive her wild with desire just by talking.

You don’t necessarily have to be with her

For starters, you can test it over the phone. Call her and tell her how sexy she looks today and how you want to take her in your arms and do bad things to her. Or tell her how naughty she was last night and how you enjoyed it. How about one more time? She will feel those hot flashes again.

use technology

Send him a sexy message or send him a sexy video. And then when he’s with you, ask him if he got the text or the video. Tell him you want to try what was in the video and see how he reacts.

play it safe

If the two of you haven’t been together for a long time, it’s wise to talk about safer topics. Perhaps you can compliment her on her appearance or her performance in bed and then proceed to describe some sexual fantasy of yours. Tell her that you had a sexy dream and that she was there. Ask her about her fantasy and let her lose her inhibitions.

The last step

The most intimate place to talk dirty things to your woman is obviously your bed. Once she is there with you, talk to her about the touches and movements she makes of her to turn you on without even touching her. Keep your voice below an audible whisper to add some drama and have him lean in close to you. Once you get up close and hear those intimate details, you’ll want to do all of that again.